Chapter 780: Chapter 754: Originally It Was Like This

“When I pulled the trigger, I didn’t feel anything because the distance was too far. It was resolved quickly, and we rushed to rescue the hostages. When I got close, I threw up again. Yes, daughter-in-law, I didn’t tell you the truth back then. I said I wouldn’t throw up after I finished eating tofu pudding, but that time, I did throw up.”

Xiao Qian seemed to understand a bit why he would share this story with her today, which he didn’t want to tell others.

“I was down for a while and even had a chat with the psychological intervention team, but they didn’t detect anything.”

“You are the kind of person who can resist treatment. It’s normal for them not to detect anything.” Xiao Qian was also such a person, so it was difficult to cure any psychological problems. Being too smart wasn’t always good.

“Later, I took some time off to visit the girl I saved, and when I came back, I was fine. During that time, the thing I hated the most was shooting, but every time there was an order, I had to do it. If I didn’t, more ordinary people would suffer.”

“You are really good at self-adjusting. In fact, many snipers overseas who have participated in battles develop post-traumatic stress disorder after retiring, and the probability of violence and suicide is high.”

Many foreign veterans, after retiring, have a high probability of becoming murderous maniacs or committing suicide due to their mental condition. After all, they have killed many people on the battlefield, and regardless of whether they were thinking of justice and fairness when they shot, the aftermath is huge.

“This is also a topic we have been paying attention to. In our situation, it is relatively rare because our people have faith. Similarly, my Xiao Mei is good at discerning people’s hearts and grasping their weaknesses. When you do something, as long as you have faith and bottom line in your heart, you won’t be lost.”

This was Yu Minglang’s real purpose for chatting with Xiao Qian.

He saw it.

Xiao Qian knew she couldn’t hide it from him. He already noticed her slight change in emotions.

“I just feel uncomfortable. Old Mai deserved it, but still, I ultimately changed his life trajectory.”

Yu Minglang rubbed her hair, “Mai Hadi is the kind of person who doesn’t hesitate to deceive women with marriage and love as bait to get what he wants. Now that he has fallen into Song Qingwu’s hands, it’s not necessarily a bad thing for him. Song Qingwu can help him get what he wants; it’s just that he went from deceiving women to being deceived by men. There’s no difference.”

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“I know, it’s just a little uneasiness. I’m fine after talking to you.”

“If you feel a little uncomfortable, it means you are still a normal person. If there’s no reaction at all, that would be truly terrifying.”

Yu Minglang liked Xiao Qian like this – decisive and not heartless. She could change a person’s destiny, but not at will. She had a good grasp of balance.

“It’s okay now, let’s go inside and skewer, I’ll help you.” After being enlightened, Xiao Qian calmed down.

Yu Minglang was more nervous when he heard her entering the kitchen than when encountering bad guys. When combined, Old Mai and Song Qingwu were less frightening than her destructive power in the kitchen!

So Xiao Qian was only assigned the simplest task of skewering meatballs, which Yu Minglang was sure wouldn’t be too easy to mess up and cause much damage. However, just in case, he had her sit on a small stool far away, away from all the kitchen utensils.

“Why would Juhua Mai have that kind of trait?” Yu Minglang couldn’t understand, how could someone like being abused?

How self-degrading is that?

“Why do you like to add chili powder when you eat barbecue? Why do people like bungee jumping? It’s all for the thrill. Nowadays, the public demonizes everything related to SM, partially because of the vulgar content you guys watch in your daily life. It’s not acceptable to kidnap someone from the street and tie them up – you’d get caught. But SM is not necessarily a forced behavior, and it’s based on both parties being voluntary.”

It seems that the torturer, or the S, has control over everything, but actually, in SM, it’s the masochist, or M, who has absolute control.

Psychologists believe that masochists are a key factor in determining the behavior of sadists. Everything the sadist does is for the pleasure of the masochist.

Please do not imitate; those who imitate after reading have mental issues.

“You look at those in Europe and America without much to show off. What I want to say is that most people like this are psychologically healthy. A philosopher once said, ‘Ultimately, there are only sadists and masochists between people.’ Think carefully about the Confucian ethics of ruler and minister, father and son, husband and wife – aren’t they all built on spiritual domination? Some people like the feeling of conquering others, some like being conquered. Why is it that when it comes to the body, it’s considered abnormal while in the mind, it’s so natural? The world is strange; when you analyze things from a psychological perspective, you can see many different layers.”

Some women, who like to be controlled by their husbands, think that a woman’s life is incomplete without having children, are willing to dedicate everything to their families, eat leftovers and live frugally. Outsiders may think this is abusive, but they enjoy it themselves. You can’t say it’s unhealthy. Many women enjoy the process of devotion. There’s nothing right or wrong if both parties are willing.

“I think philosophy is something that can confuse people.” Yu Minglang understood, but also felt terrified upon further thought. This topic couldn’t continue; it would lead to trouble.

“In the end, it’s the relationship between human nature and ethics. When the nature is not released and satisfied, psychological problems arise. From Old Mai’s attitude towards women, he must have had an unhappy childhood. His mother was just one of his father’s many women, not valued and even beaten. This resentment is passed on to the child, causing him to despise women and think of them as low-IQ beings while deep down, there is a desire to be abused.”

“Daughter-in-law, when I’m unemployed in the future, I’ll set up a stall with you to tell fortunes and predict events. You can not only see through people’s current thoughts but also analyze their growth trajectories. It would be a pity not to tell fortunes. By then, I’ll follow you around, just like Daodao follows Shuixian.”

“In our eyes, everyone is like a canvas. The paintings they show determine what kind of experiences they will have. My ability to predict their growth process is just like your ability to do business; there is nothing strange.”

“No, wait, I think I just heard something important – you said, Daodao is following Shuixian?”

During these two days, the two women around Boss Qian showed opposite emotional extremes. Liu Mei started a new romance with Brother Fu Gui, bright and sunny after breaking up with the scumbag, igniting an infinite little spark of love, crackling. On the other hand, Shuixian was as stagnant as dead water, acting as if she was heartbroken and the whole world owed her a Daodao.

“Yes, Daodao left with me. Daodao and I had a talk, and after weighing the pros and cons, he made a difficult decision.”

It was far more than just a difficult decision; during the heart-to-heart with Yu Minglang, Daodao was at a loss for words several times.